I was constantly!! 99% of it was not even true!! The elders families are the worst.
I sure don't miss that!!
MMO
whilst a jw, one thing that was evident to me was the constant gossip and backbiting.....being nice to someones face and then talking about them behind there backs.were you ever a "victim" of this sort of behaviour???
is it as common as i suspect from cong.
to cong???.
I was constantly!! 99% of it was not even true!! The elders families are the worst.
I sure don't miss that!!
MMO
when you used to go out in service (or if you still do) what was the coffee time?
that's the time that you usually look at your watch and say "oh hey let's go for coffee then do a few more!
"...or worse...did you not take one in morning service?
Usually around 11:00 was coffee time. I remember that is all I looked forward to!!!
MMO
yes, i like to gaze around during prayers, especially big ones.
twice now i have seen the chairman or concluding speaker finish the song, approach the speaker stand, say "let's approach god in prayer," and at the last second pull out a index card size of paper with writing on it.
he kind of cups his hand over as he lays in on top of the song book.
I have seen them read as well. At the District Conventions.
MMO
when i call my mother she says she can't talk to me because i am dfed.. i asked her to help me and my pregnant wife move and she said "i don't think i can do that"... whos not allowing her to do it?.
she always calls me if her car or her computer breaks.. she called me today because her computer broke.
so.... i turned the tables on her.
Good on you! She has to realize it goes both ways!!
MMO
how do your minds work people??.
the word 'cult'.
who is comfortable saying they were raised in a 'cult' or were brainwashed temporarily by a 'cult'?.
Although I wasn't always comfortable saying it, I am now. CULT!!
i posted my pic.
(well part of it at least (am a bit shy still...) because i am not scared to be found out anymore.
mind you i've been df'ed for nearly a year now but still had hope 'friends' would remember we were like family and realize they couldn't possibly live the rest of their lives without talking to me again....ha!
Welcome!
You are among friends here!
MMO
anyone have one of the old pink songbooks?.
or know how much they pop up for on ebay?.
Oh thanks alot bbdodger, now this will be stuck in my head all night!
What will you bring? Jehovah's Kingdom. Triumph of truth...
MMO
Isn't it funny how you NEVER forget those songs? I could sing so many of them and it has been absolutely ages since I was even in a KH!
my name is becky aka mrsroller.
i call myself that because the notorious rollerdave is my hubby.
i met dave when he was in his early thirties and it had only been a few years since he had left the jw's.
Welcome to the forum Becky/MrsRoller!
I am sure you will enjoy your stay here, there is so much to learn!
We are all happy to have you join us!
MMO
this goes back a year ago, my mom was trying to get me to go to the district convension b/c there was a major announcement being made.
of course i didn't go (why go back after all these years?).
anyway, she called me when it was over and i asked her what the announcement was.
This goes back a year ago, my mom was trying to get me to go to the district convension b/c there was a MAJOR announcement being made. Of course I didn't go (why go back after all these years?). Anyway, she called me when it was over and I asked her what the announcement was. She said: The announcement is that we are in the Great Tribulation now...it has already started.
Instantly that old familiar scared feeling kicks in (good old scare tactics work every time!). I got over the panicked feeling in a hurry, but I am wondering: did anyone else hear about this?? That is the first and last time I heard about it so I am wondering if my mom was being dramatic and trying to get me to come back to "the truth".
Comments?
MMO
those who aren't in the truth i feel much pity for you.
all of you are filled with much hatred and anger that all you can do is blast out of your stupid mouths horrible things about the one true religion.
i feel sorry for you that you will not have ever lasting life.
Ever notice that one of the main things JW's will use in their arguements against non-jw's is about not being able to live forever? It's like that is the only reason they are in the "truth", not b/c they genuinely believe the message or love jehovah and the organization. It's because they are getting something for staying in the org.
the333, you may be waiting a loooonnng time for the "end" to come...just ask around, wasn't it supposed to come long before now??
Don't feel sorry for us, we don't need or want your pity. We are better off...trust.
MMO